When talking to a worldschooler, the question “What’s your favorite place you traveled to?” might seem like a harmless inquiry. However, this seemingly innocuous question can be problematic and does not fully capture the essence of worldschooling.
This question annoys Lucas and Henry because it is such a broad question. They feel pressured to choose one place over another, even if they both hold a special place in their hearts for different reasons. A worldschooler cannot answer it in a meaningful way. We have traveled to almost 40 countries since we started worldschooling. Each country has been unique, but a week in Iceland is different than six months in Nicaragua. Vacationing with family in Italy is not the same as living with another worldschooling family for a month in Chiang Mai. One country is not necessarily better than the other; the experiences are just wildly different. 
Worldschooling is not just about ticking off destinations on a bucket list (although Michael keeps a list); it is about the people you meet, the cultures you experience, and the personal growth that comes from stepping outside your comfort zone. Asking a worldschooler about their favorite place they have traveled to oversimplifies their experiences and overlooks the depth of their learning and growth. Each place visited contributes to a broader understanding of the world, making it difficult, if not impossible, to pick just one favorite.
Instead of asking about favorites, a more meaningful question to ask worldschoolers is “What have you learned from your travels?” This open-ended question allows worldschoolers to reflect on their experiences holistically, focusing on the lessons learned, the challenges overcome, and the personal growth achieved. It encourages them to think critically about their experiences and share the insights gained from their travels.
Here are some other great questions to ask worldschoolers:
What was a memorable experience you had while traveling?
This question allows worldschoolers to share specific moments that impacted them, whether it is meeting a new friend, trying a new food, or experiencing a cultural tradition.
Can you share a challenging situation you faced during your travels and how you overcame it?
This question invites worldschoolers to reflect on resilience and problem-solving skills developed through travel experiences. You will also probably get a great story as an answer.
What is something you learned about yourself while traveling?
This question encourages introspection and self-awareness, focusing on personal growth and development during their travels.
How have your travels influenced your interests or hobbies?
This question explores how travel has broadened their horizons and inspired new passions.
What is a cultural tradition or custom from your travels that you found particularly interesting?
This question encourages worldschoolers to share insights into different cultures and the unique experiences they encountered.
How do you stay connected to the places you have visited after you leave?
This question explores the lasting impact of travel and how worldschoolers maintain connections with the places they have been.
What is something unexpected that you learned from your travels?
This question highlights the unpredictable nature of travel and the surprising lessons learned along the way.
How do you think your travels have shaped your perspective on the world?
This question encourages worldschoolers to reflect on the broader impact of their travels and how it has influenced their worldview.
While asking worldschoolers about their favorite place they have traveled to may seem like a simple question, it fails to capture the complexity and depth of their experiences. Asking more meaningful questions that encourage reflection and dialogue, allow worldschoolers to share the full extent of their journey and the valuable lessons learned along the way.
